Joe and Angela are already arguing before the guests arrive. The argument is not dramatic enough to end a marriage or unusual enough to remember. It concerns the apartment, their schedules, the way one of them speaks when the other is tired. Olivia Wilde opens The Invite inside that exhausted rhythm, where the problem is no longer what a couple fights about, but how completely they know the shape of the fight.

Joe is played by Seth Rogen, who uses his familiar warmth as a form of avoidance. He makes jokes, offers food, and fills silences before they can become accusations. Angela, played by Wilde, has stopped finding that instinct charming. She hears every joke as another refusal to say what he actually feels. Neither person is entirely wrong, which is the first sign that the film understands marriage better than its provocative premise suggests.

Their upstairs neighbors arrive for dinner carrying an entirely different energy. Piña and Hawk are attractive, attentive, and apparently fascinated by one another. Penélope Cruz gives Piña a relaxed directness that immediately unsettles Angela, while Edward Norton plays Hawk with the unnerving confidence of a man who considers honesty a social obligation for everyone else. They ask questions Joe and Angela have learned not to ask each other.

Then comes the invitation. Piña and Hawk explain that they regularly have sex with other couples and suggest that the four of them spend the night together. The proposition does not create the cracks in Joe and Angela's marriage. It changes the lighting so everyone can see them.

Wilde, directing from a screenplay by Will McCormack and Rashida Jones, understands that the evening works because the audience can imagine several ways it might end. The film moves between farce, marital drama, and sexual tension without announcing each shift. A spilled drink can become a joke, an accusation, or an excuse for two people to leave the room together. The apartment is elegant but narrow, filled with mirrors, doorways, and corners where someone can be seen listening.

Rogen gives one of his most controlled performances. Joe's humor remains funny, but the film gradually reveals the labor behind it. He is not simply the comfortable husband contrasted with a more adventurous couple. He is a man who has built his identity around being easy to live with and cannot understand why that has not made him easier to love.

The proposition does not create the cracks in Joe and Angela's marriage. It changes the lighting so everyone can see them.
The two couples sit together at a dinner table in a cramped apartment.
Four performers, one apartment, and a conversation that gets harder to control. Image: A24

Wilde is equally strong in front of the camera. Angela could have become the severe spouse who exists to explain why the husband is unhappy. Instead, Wilde makes her frustration specific. Angela does not merely want excitement. She wants evidence that Joe is still capable of seeing her as someone unpredictable. Her attraction to the evening is inseparable from the anger of realizing strangers may understand that need before her husband does.

Cruz is the film's most magnetic presence. Piña can be generous and manipulative within the same sentence, but Cruz never plays her as a threat imported to destroy another couple. She is curious about Angela, sometimes more curious than Angela is prepared to handle. Norton gives Hawk a complementary unease. His openness has rules, and the film becomes more interesting as those rules emerge.

The screenplay is frequently very funny. Much of the humor comes from the desperate precision with which adults attempt to negotiate an impulsive situation. Questions about boundaries become arguments about old betrayals. A discussion of consent turns into a referendum on who has been listening. McCormack and Jones know that long-term couples can use shared history as both intimacy and ammunition.

The film's one-room structure never feels static. Cinematographer Adam Newport-Berra uses warm surfaces and reflective glass to create a space that grows less comfortable as the night continues. Editor Yorgos Mavropsaridis lets reactions arrive a beat later than expected, allowing a compliment to sour or a joke to reveal its target. Wilde is less interested in making the apartment feel trapped than in showing how willingly these people keep returning to the same room.

The Invite becomes less daring in its final stretch. After spending much of the evening complicating monogamy, desire, and honesty, the film begins arranging its emotional conclusions more neatly than the preceding conversation deserves. Some revelations feel designed to make one relationship safer and another less enviable. The resolution is satisfying, but part of that satisfaction comes from the film reducing the risk it spent so long creating.

That hesitation does not erase what comes before it. The Invite is not really about whether these four people will have sex. It is about the terror of learning that a partner has desires you did not know enough to fear. Wilde gives that terror room to be funny, cruel, embarrassing, and occasionally hopeful. Marriage survives here not through perfect honesty, but through the decision to keep speaking after honesty has made the room uncomfortable.